Having read the other stories, there is a theme of Elspeth as a mother to so many. This is also my memory of a beautiful, kind and inspirational lady. The Threlfall family grew up literally next door to the Arvanitis family. I could climb out of my bedroom window, walk across a flat roof and jump into their garden, and, this was my normal methodology for meeting with Elspeth who was literally like a mother to me and my brother. However, I do remember her politely expressing a preference for me using doors at some point.

As Nick and I lived in San Francisco for many years I used this line at many dinner parties: “I was born and there was Nick... I have never been the same since.” But the reality is “there was Elspeth” (and in fact the whole of her family). That friendship, guidance and love has shaped my whole life and is something for which I am truly grateful. Elspeth we will miss you.